ORIGINS: World Tour
If I had one year left to meet lovers across the world…
How would I do it?
AROUND THE WORLD
Gentlemen
As a very curious little Sex Bunny...
I don’t just wonder how men from different countries looks like (including their Banana 😉). I wonder how they seduce a women. From the way they greet, to the unspoken beliefs they carry about how a woman should be treated.
How do they make love?
Do they have some sort of special kinks?
Does culture shape them into entirely different kinds of lover?
Sex Workers
Growing up in Singapore, I always sensed quietly that there was an influx of women from China and Thailand hiding in the Red Light District called Geylang. By the time I grew up, they disappeared－ maybe it’s our government way of hiding things underground.
Recent years, in my mid twenties, I became aware of something else:
Korean girls in night clubs (A male friend brought me there).
Japanese girls online.
That felt… strange.
If Korean and Japanese women are often seen as the epitome of femininity in Asia— why were they here?
Their countries are larger.
Their men are plenty.
So why leave?
Is there a hidden demand in Singapore inside a forbidden world I don’t know about?
I wonder what brings them here.
Transactional Dating
As a girl growing up in a metropolitan society, we are often shielded from knowing the reality of the alternate world gentlemen are waddling in.
While we may not need to be in the shoes of a low priced Street Prostitute often from developing countries…
We are marketed into a new dating culture where giving free casual sex is normalised through Tinder. That, or sugar dating.
Escorts was a new concept that entered my awareness in an humour way－ from a Sugar Dating site called Seeking.com in year 2024.
Because of their rule:
“No Escorts Allowed.”
The curious bunny googled it.
And well, the rest is a history to those in the know.
INTO A NEW WORLD
High Class Society
After 9 months of nightmares from availing myself as a Sex Bunny in the notorious Singapore Sex Forum (SBF), I reached a turning point where I knew If I truly loved myself, I would leave that dark toxic world where harassment and degradation of women was worn as a badge of honor for most Singaporean men.
Eventually I found my way to EuroGirls, Ivy and Tryst.
EuroGirls was recommended by a European LOVER™. It turns out to be platform meant for low tier bunnies filled with men oblivious to standard industry practices of securing session with deposit given the usual types of girls they used to patronize via the ‘Walk In’ method.
Daily pings of 5 to 20+ messages.
Endless noise yet zero bookings for months.
I left eventually.
But Ivy and Tryst was different.
A truly beautiful premium platform filled with mid & high tier bunnies. Where respect towards the girls was ensured by its creator.
The bunnies there were more educated, articulate and firm with boundaries. They had professional photos and website. Some even with careers like me!
A total opposite of what one would find in SBF－ in terms of both the quality of Men and Bunnies.
I felt like I’ve finally found my own tribe.
What a relief.
Touring
On these premium platforms, I discovered a new language:
“Touring”
“FMTY”
Apparently, some bunnies are flying across countries to meet men. That’s when I realised Singapore was one of them.
More questions emerged…
Is there really strong demand in these cities, and why?
Are there really wealthy men who can afford to fly girls across the world just for a day of romance?
Or is this just another shimmering illusion like the Sugar World?
What if I become one of them?
From the girl who watches arrivals…
To the girl who depart.
The idea of discovering where in the world you are more desired sounds rather exciting. But more often than not, in my case especially, being a Sex Bunny in a foreign land simply gives one more privacy for their naughty life. 😏
Business With Pleasure
Coincidentally, before I became a Sex Bunny, let’s just say that I was already living in rare lifestyle.
So I thought to myself…
What if I merged both worlds?
Being a part time sex bunny during my travels and business trips. But of course, such adventure must be accompanied with the highest level of street smart.
As an independent Sex Bunny, we often dive alone into a dark world of secrecy.
No guidebook.
No protection.
No one watching your back.
Your feminine instinct, discernment and strong boundaries in who you choose to meet is all you got.
As fate has unexpectedly prepared me…
The terrible experiences I had in Singapore turns out to be my greatest training ground.
Sailing Off
From mid 2025, I begin dabbling while visiting Japan’s Sakura Blossoms and attending my Amsterdam conference.
By October 2025, I returned to my former life. With that, I naturally went international right after my 1st year anniversary as a Sex Bunny.
As I prepared to leave this little red dot…
I wonder what stories and lovers awaits me out there.
CONSTELLATION LOVERS
What if I start stamping each territory in my memories with the top LOVER™ from each country? The ones that makes my heart flutter and my wet kitty squirting with excitement.
Would there be similarities between them that could guide me faster in my future love life? Maybe in terms of filtering sexual chemistry. Or maybe it teaches me nothing valuable in the end.
At the very least, retiring from this world with sweetest memory would be a wisest present I can give to myself before moving on.
In this temporary escape inside the world of BUNNY LAND™, I wonder if I would find something worth knowing or experiencing.
After allowing myself to be intimate with random gentlemen whom I usually won’t date nor hook up with in my usual romantic life.
After all, CARROTS™ isn’t a permanent spell－ they don’t have the magic to sway the real heart of a princess.
Not every girl can be forever disillusioned.
Nor enticed with golds to sell their love sealed with ink.